2 weeks ago
Ever since I was little, no girl has ever admitted that she likes me first. It was me, being the gentleman to admit I like them first. Then it was also me taking them out everywhere so that two people who like each other in a odd way can find an amazing connection somewhere in the city or beyond.
Now the tide has changed, a girl likes me first. At first it didn’t register in my mind at all, I mean I’m the least good looking guy in NYC, why would anyone like me? I also have a 10% value of who I am, while everyone has 90% or above. That didn’t matter to this girl because she thinks I’m smart, leave all her exes in the dust, patient, and a good listener.
Now you think when you start chatting with someone that they instantly like you, but no it doesn’t happen. It takes alot of work and commitment on both sides to make it happen. Both of you must be willing to make it happen, want to see each other, and connect on many different levels.
This girl has her own problems as well. I won’t go into detail but some that bother me include always asking me if I like her, always wanting to chat, a little possessive, always wanting reassurance. I think every girl wants reassurance that the other person feels the same way about you. Then there are times we don’t chat and have nothing to chat about. That’s the dealbreaker for me.
Well it’s been 5 months about since we started chatting online, found her on the Skout app. Yes, Internet dating is real. This Saturday we are meeting for the first time ever. Whatever happens, happens..
The important thing is I think she’s an amazing person, I’m lucky to know her, and forever will chat with her knowing she liked me first. This is rare, so I’m enjoying every minute